something to be learned from someone else’s breastfeeding story. Here
you will find those breastfeeding hardships, trials and joys and
triumphs to motivate those who are thinking of breastfeeding, or who
are struggling to breastfeed.
Elsabe Rabe, who is 22, lives in Limpopo, South Africa and shares her story…
I think back on my breastfeeding journey with my son, Jayden, I think
of one incredible, if not the most incredible, experience of my life! I
was extremely blessed to not have had any real problems during the
nearly 17 months I breastfed him.
day I found out I was pregnant, I knew I wanted to breastfeed. Yes, if I
have to be really honest with you, thinking about a baby sucking on
your breasts was kind of weird at first. But after learning all
, to mom and baby, and knowing it's the way God created us to feed our
babies, I just knew it was what I wanted to do. I never even considered
bottles or formula, I was too determined. I was also aware that
sometimes there really are medical (or other) reasons that would prevent
you from breastfeeding, but I kept praying it wouldn't happen to me and
I felt confident, knowing my mother also breastfed me and my sister for
a year more or less each.
The very first
time they helped me put Jayden to the breast in hospital, the sisters
said Jayden was a little Electrolux! It was sooo encouraging to hear
that and it made me feel like I made the right choice. The "weirdness"
disappeared and the bonding began...
quite an adaptation for me to learn to cope with broken sleep and coping
with a tiny little person who was 98% dependent on me alone. But in
just the same way it was an amazing sense of worth to know I am the only
one that can nourish and feed this baby. Every time someone came to
visit and Jayden started crying because he got hungry, I got this little
thrill to know I alone can give him what he needs. Wow! :o)
My support system was also really great. As I mentioned earlier,
my mom breastfed us so that gave me a good head start. Hubby was 100%
for it and from the start, his contribution was to bring Jayden to me
through the night when he needed a feed. I rarely got up at night, and
it's still that way after 2 and half years. I'm not a night person at
all and need at least 8 or 9 hours sleep to function properly, whereas
Hubby only needs 4 or 5 hours. We compliment each other perfectly in
Another very important person in
my life is one of my mom's friends. She has 4 sons, the youngest are
twins. She breastfed them all, including the twins up to 18 months! I
kept thinking that if she could breastfeed them all, I can surely
breastfeed my son. I've learned a lot about parenting from her and
admire her tremendously.
The only problem I
can remember during my breastfeeding experience, was the one night when
Jayden slept for 6 hours at once and I got engorged. Man.... it hurt
like hell!! But it was nothing major and I just
massaged the area
with Arnica Gel, let him feed as much as he could/wanted to (holding
him in different positions to let him empty the breast from different
angles) and soon it was back to normal.
also fed him on demand, not schedule. My view is that we don't get
hungry at the same time every day, so why do we think our babies do? It
was so convenient to just lift my shirt and latch him on, wherever,
whenever. No waiting, no preparing, no sterilizing, no screaming baby.
(Almost seemed to good to be true lol!)
exclusively breastfed to 5 and half months and then I introduced solids
very slowly. Until about a year, I never gave him anything else to
drink besides my breastmilk. From then on I gave him a little bit of
water or Rooibos tea.
round about 16 or 17 months. I can't tell you how much I miss that
special time and I would've loved to keep going till at least two years,
but I knew he had a great start to life and that the time was right for
him, not me.
I can't wait for our next child to go through the whole journey again!”
Leneah Willis who is 27 and lives in Ohio sent us her special
breastfeeding story of how she came to the realization of how special
and beneficial breastfeeding can really be.
“When I found out that my husband and I were having a baby, I was
ecstatic! I knew that my purpose was to be a mother. I wanted to be the
best mother that anyone could ever be. But I never thought of
breastfeeding something that could be the best thing for my baby. I felt
weird about having my son
and decided before he even came into this world that I wouldn’t breastfeed.
of 2007 my beautiful baby boy arrived and I was overcome with joy. The
nurses in the hospital informed me that the nutrients from the
I produced were the best for the baby. You only produce colostrum in the
beginning of your breastfeeding journey, so I asked if I could just
pump. They provided me with a pump and it was very slow going. I was
pumping not even two ounces at a time. This made me try even harder and
give my son the best. Because I was just pumping I
didn’t have enough
, and my milk subsided. My husband and I then had seen a difference. My
son didn’t agree with the standard formula. We tried 3 different types
and then finally found one that he could keep down. He was up every two
hours until he was six months old and had reflux. I was exhausted. I had
also gone back to work. Not only was I tired. I was dealing with a sick
and cranky baby.
Before my son’s second birth day, We found out that I was to have
my second child. This pregnancy I battled with myself about whether or
not to breastfeed. I knew that pumping only again wouldn’t do the trick
and I didn’t want to go through what I went through the first time
around. But I was still freaked out by it.
When the heavens
opened up for the second time in my life I knew that I was truly
blessed. I put aside all my worries and went for it. I had him latch on
as soon as he was hungry. It hurt like crazy. I had pumped before and
knew what the pressure felt like but this was different. This actually
felt normal. I didn’t feel like a cow being milked by the utters, and
actually bonded with my baby. Not to mention that he seems full, happy,
and healthy. He not only sleeps from 9:30 at night till 6:00 in the
morning, but we are both rested and happy. I have energy to play and
potty train my two year old and help my newborn develop. I have also
bought a cheap pump and pump every time I feel like I am full and he
doesn’t eat. My freezer has 30, four ounce bags of my milk. If for any
reason I start to lose my milk I have started a back up just in case.
And the biggest kicker, I lost every pound that I put on from my second
I am extremely happy that I have made it through this
journey and provided for at least one child. I am also in the process of
looking into the donation process. I plan on when I feel like my son
should start on cow’s milk, I would like to continue pumping and donate
my milk to mothers that feel like they would like to give the best for
their children, but cannot produce milk themselves.
I want to say
to anybody out there that is scared by the thought of breastfeeding,
just do it. Take it from me that everyone will benefit from this.“
Loretta Anderson from Australia is 35 and a mother of two who shares her
breast feeding story. She also had breastfeeding problems but was
determined to find a solution. Read her inspirational breastfeeding
"My breastfeeding journey started with my first son and went quite
well until he was 6 months then he gave up one side, this devastated me
and I did all I could to get him back on but it didn't work.
then went on to have my second son 5 years later and really wanted to
make sure this didn't happen again. So I began to read about
breastfeeding and ask others of their journey.
I was already a
midwife of 8 years when I had my second son and used my connections with
this to learn more about breastfeeding.
I realised that all the
advice I was getting was conflicting and only based on other peoples
experiences. So I thought, why not go to the horse’s mouth, so to
speak, and learn from the experts. So I researched into becoming a
Lactation Consultant and found that it was harder than I thought, I
actually had to be accepted by the Board to sit the exam, and this was
before I even started studying.
I needed many thousands of hours to show the Board of Lactation
Examiners that I was experienced enough to sit the exam and practice as
an LC. It was then that I realised that Lactation Consultants really
had the knowledge and skill to give fantastic advice, I mean, if you
have to be scrutinised before they let you in. I studied for 2 years to
sit the exam in July 2008 and passed with 82%!
I was so thrilled
and began working in the field imparting truly, researched based
knowledge onto my clients and I have never looked back.
most important part of it all was that I had a truly amazing birth and
am still breastfeeding to this day and my son is now 2 years of age. I
am forever grateful that I was able to sit this exam and also for the
fantastic knowledge I was able to apply to my own personal breastfeeding
relationship with my beautiful son.......so perfect!"