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Low milk supply with twinsby Niki (Cyprus)
"Μy twins spent the first month of their lives in intensive care. They had TTTS (twin to twin transfusion syndrome).
I asked the nurses to see if I could produce milk after the c-section, since I'd heard milk production is more difficult in this case.
Everything seemed ok, so I started pumping every 2-3 hours...my milk supply was next to nothing...I managed 10 mls every day...which was pitiful for twins, even if their meal was 15 mls when they were born at 43 weeks.
I pumped obsessively, wanted to give my little ones the best, especially since they seemed so fragile covered in tubes and wired....sometimes I pumped for 1 h and a half, just slept for 30 min and started over again...it did not work.
When one of the twins got out weighing 2 kg we visited a nursing councellor. She said not to expect him to help me produce more until he;s 3,5 kg but that he's latching on well...then the second one came out, I still pumped like crazy...Formula feeding was necessary, I never risked starving them.
I tried to breastfeed them, even both of them together, they cried their lungs out, obviously from hunger and , defeated, I turned to the bottle every night. The doctor in intensive care had commented on the fact that my breasts were not swollen and that I had lost that "window" of creating a steady milk supply....
I guess she was right...The first three months of their lives I rented a double pump pumped, put them to the breast, too, they still were hungry and were bottle fed. I took fenugreek pills.9 a day, special tea, hot showers, massaging before pumping...the works.
I don't think I slept through the night even once for 3 months. And I was happy for it. I did it for them. But I never got more than 60 mls a day....When I went back to work, I pretty much gave up...I still have a few drops and manage to extract less than 10 mls a day....my mom says its better than nothing and its like medicine to them. But I cant help but feel incompetent..I thought about taking this pill that stops your milk altogether because I can't bear the site of those insufficient few drops...but then again I change my mind and decide to try again...I still don't know what to do and they are 6 months old..Not aiming at exclusive breastfeeding heaven forbid....just a reasonable amount...I would be in seventh heaven if I could offer them a meal a day....But i don't think this is ever going to happen...imagine I never wanted to breastfeed before the babies came. I guess the joke's on me now..."
Dec 26, 2013
You rock, mama! by: Lyssa
"Breastfeeding isn't always easy after a c-section, and even more difficult when you cannot directly latch the babies or do skin to skin.
From what you have told me, it sounds like you are an amazing mom to have worked so hard to get your babies the best! I know they appreciate it and have benefited from it!
And now it may be time to focus on what YOU need as a mom to be happy and healthy. If being happy and healthy means continuing to pump, then do it!
If being happy and healthy means congratulating yourself on 6 hard fought months and moving on, that is okay, too! You are not a failure!
You have given your babies the best! And you need to do what is right for you, your babies, and your family."
Jan 07, 2014
Thanks, Lyssa... by: Niki
"Dear Lyssa, the 25th was my birthday so your comment is like a gift to me... To tell you the truth, I actually came to the same conclusion. I know I tried, even if not hard enough for some. That was me, trying. And I cannot be blamed for that! I decided to quit! It made me depressed to feel like a disappointment and it felt like I was not accepting the truth and I was lying to myself.
Since the twins have started on solid foods 3 times a day by now(they're 7 months old), I feel confident that they're getting all they need even if it's not from mom. And not being a selfish mom, I feel completely satisfied with that.
You are so right, bottom line. Babies are much happier with a happy mom than with a breasfeeding mom or a pumping mom...thanks again! It's good to see someone can actually see clearly through all the Sears bs...
BUT I will not lie. I feel a little twitch in my heart when I hear a mom's still breastfeeding at 7 months or more. But I'll get over that, too!!!"
And then we had Twins...by Elsabe
"All excited about finally being pregnant again after 6 months of trying to conceive, we got the surprise of our lives... "Hold on to your shoes, because here's baby number two..." were the doctor's words. I think my heart stopped beating for a few seconds, I gave Hubby a smack and started laughing and crying all at once.I stared at that screen thinking this can't be real! But it was. And now I was even more determined to make a success of breastfeeding my second and third child. Even though I immediately got told that I would have to have a c-section and have to accept that I won't be able to breastfeed exclusively with two babies.
Unfortunately the c-section did realise, because the smaller twin was breech first and the bigger twin transverse. But we got the breastfeeding right! My twincesses, Tammy Grace and Alizah Katelyn turned one year old on 3 August 2011 and I'm very proud to say they have never had any supplement formula in their lives, only breastmilk.
Alizah immediately took to the breast after the birth and I had a flashback of Jayden when he was born and took to the breast like a pro too. Tammy, the smaller one, unfortunately didn't. She had low blood sugar and wouldn't latch, so they tube fed her for the first night. But I kept telling every single staff member that I want to breastfeed only and asked them to bring her to me. The next morning the lactation consultant came and brought her to me. After hearing that I breastfed my son for 17 months, she was even more willing to help and encourage me, which was great. She was the only person there who had faith in me.
We sat all day working to get Tammy latched. I have never prayed so much in one day as I did that day. The only breaks I took was to go to the loo and eat. The rest of the time I was either feeding Alizah or trying to get Tammy latched. It was grueling, my wound was sore, I was supposed to be moving around more, but all I wanted was to feed both my babies. By evening, she finally latched and what a relief!!
The next day by lunch time, we all went home. Yes, we only spent 3 days in hospital. A miracle actually, because they were born at only 35w1d. And besides the fact that I started dilating at 31 weeks, was on bedrest at home and a week of strict bedrest in hospital before the birth, they spend no time in NICU, and we had no issues other than getting Tammy latched.
At home I could focus on learning the art of feeding two babies at once. Hubby was home for a week and helped a lot. Once all the family and friends were done visiting and everyone went home and back to work, I was a bit overwhelmed by suddenly having 3 kids to care for. Eventually I started feeding them one after the other, simply because it was difficult picking up two babies and positioning them correctly. It meant more crying as one had to wait a bit, but I could handle it better and wasn't scared of hurting them anymore by picking them up with one hand only, especially as they got bigger.
We had one bout of thrush after they had ear infections and were put on antibiotics. The second time around, after the treatments for - what I thought was recurring thrush - weren't working, I learned that it was in fact Raynaud's.
My nipples had red patches before a fed and afterwards white spots, almost looking like blisters. When I took a shower it would even have blue patches, I still remember Hubby commenting on it one night and I told him I was just cold, after all it was winter. But an IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant) told me those are typical signs of Raynaud's. The best thing to do is to keep warm.
With all my attempts to treat the "thrush", I was airing my nipples too much, which made them cold and even more painful. In fact, it was so painful, I cried every single time I fed my girls. They were about 8 months old at that stage and I was soooo close to giving up. Having not just one, but TWO babies sucking on painful nipples, day and night, is seriously not for the faint hearted!
I still struggle with the pain some days, but it's not as bad anymore. And reading and learning more about breastmilk and it's amazing benefits, helps me to push through. In anyway, I've proved all the unbelieving doctor's and nurses wrong for a year now, why should I stop? We've worked too hard to get here.
As for how one can feed two babies... as I said I did hold them both football hold for about the first 2 months, but preferred feeding one after the other. Once they were able to sit by themselves and became more mobile, I started feeding them together again. Our favourite position is one cradled (normal hold) and one football (as in the photo). Now that they are cruising, and just about walking, we have 'gymnurstics' and have all weird and wonderful positions.
The best part about breastfeeding twins is watching them try to copy each other! And if one dares let go of the boobie, the other will hijack it and take a few sips, just in case it might taste better than the one they had LOL! They hold hands while nursing, play with each other's hair, and even pull the boobie out of the other's mouth if they're feeling mischevious. It's such a special and unique bond to witness.
Breastfeeding twins is possible. It's hard work and a very different experience than I had with my son, but I love every moment of it. It surely has double the rewards!! <3"
~*~ TwincessMama ~*~
Jul 03, 2012
simply awesome by: aarya
"its so touching to read your story, and hats-off for not giving up and breastfeeding your twins this long. I breastfed my first child(son) exclusively for 21 months.and now i have my 22-days old baby girl. am planning to breastfeed her as long as i can, and you are a true inspiration to all mothers :)"
Sep 26, 2012
such a wonderful mom by: racha's momy
"I feel very happy when i read such stories, as i faced lots of problems during the first 2 months after giving birth to my daughter, one of my breasts was engorged and the nipple was about to ''fall'', i cried every time i had to feed her, but never gave up.she is still berastfeeding now at the age of 18 months, and i am about to give birth to my second baby in 3 weeks, so planning on tandem nursing.
you are very very brave and such a wonderful mom, God bless you and your lovely family."
Jan 14, 2013
Inspirational mother! by: Anonymous
"Very inspiring to read your story my little boy is 3 weeks old I am breast feeding him and some days find it hard my back aches alot so I'm not sure my positioning is the best but I get such a rush when I take him to get weighed and he's gained nearly a lb :) so glad I read your story as its put any thoughts of formula feeding out of my mind now. As I was considering it due to jack if support and people constantly suggesting it to me it's like no one I know breast feeds any more :/ but I'm determined to stick it out this time only managed 2weeks with my other little boy again due to lack of support and not knowing if I was doing anything right. But thank you for posting your story. And a massive well done!!"