Feeling like a failure
I have 2 kids, I tried nursing with my first one but after 2 months and hardly any weight gain and lots of crying I decided to give it up.. Now with my 2nd one I'm trying everything to keep nursing but nothing wants to work.. I've taken herbs, I've tried drinking a gallon of water a day, massaging, hot baths and I barely make any... And the comment about feeling less of a woman is soo true.. I felt so guilty after quitting the first time that I'm doing everything that I know to do to keep what little milk I have.. I am using formula too now but I'm scared of feeling like a complete failure again!