With a nursing strike, a mother might feel rejected, guilty and very distressed.
This can happen during any time in
any breastfeeding relationship. The baby might suck for a few minutes and
then push away crying and refusing to continue breastfeeding. Your baby might not
want to suck at all, even though he/she seems hungry.
Some babies are just very fussy during breastfeeding, stopping
a few times, but continuing this way until satisfied. Some babies may be distracted, or restless and might even be fussy after feedings too.
Take a deep breath and remember that this time will be worth it in a
few months from now. (Hopefully sooner than that)
Relaxing will help your milk flow more efficiently. If you are feeling
overwhelmed, it would be best to stop trying for now and then try again
later, when you are feeling calmer. Get some help with your baby, so that you can take a break.
Co-sleeping can also help your baby relax while breastfeeding.
before nursing, to relieve a harsh milk flow. This can also be helpful to those mothers with slow let down reflex problems, as the pumping can get the milk flowing before the baby nurses.