Not able to breastfeed
Years ago I tried everything including pumping and was not able to breastfeed. I too thought it was my issue.
My daughter just had her first baby, so, after a lot of research she would breastfeed and pump in between to try to increase her supply.
We used a powerful pump, and after one month and the less than 1oz a day, she decided to bottle feed and add what little she gets with pumping to the formula. So as all of you discovered, some people do not produce enough no matter what they do. I felt guilty for 33 years. No more, thanks for the post!
No one replied to my pleas for help...
I was devastated when it came to the time to give up on trying to breastfeed. When I first had my son, I was told my nipples were too small, so I was given a breast pump and left to my denices... no help, while mothers around me who were fed by the breast were given every bit of help.
I came home with the pump and rang around groups, and no one replied to my pleas for help. I still get upset now as I feel that I've let max down.
My heart was set on giving him the best start. I have written to the hospital board and explained my complaint as I don't want another mom to go through what I have, I'm glad to see I'm not alone. Thank you for putting up this site.
Any successful stories for third child?
I had problems breastfeeding both my first and second child. I am now pregnant with my third and still hope this time it will be different. Is there anyone out there with more than one child who found they had more milk the third time around?
I know all there is to know about breastfeeding and have seen expert breastfeeding specialists. In many ways, I believe it is stress that contributed to my difficulty in breastfeeding.
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The wishing to breastfeed does not go away
I stumbled across this web page through a google search and wanted to leave my story in hopes that it may provide some help for another mom.
Upon my request, I was able to naturally deliver my second daughter at 39 weeks. She weighed 7lbs 7ozs. I had breastfed my first daughter exclusively for six months and then on and off until she was 2.
I was excited at the thought of being able to establish this bond with my second daughter. My breast milk came in late with my first daughter (around 5-6 days after birth).
When I was in the hospital with my second daughter, my milk did not come in. Hoping it would help, I began to pump. At the suggestion of a lactation consultant, I pumped 8-10 times a day for 20 minutes on both sides. I tried to think of relaxing things while I pumped. I still got nothing. No milk, no colostrum...nothing. I was so frustrated.
The lactation consultant suggested we begin using a Haberman feeder with my second daughter. Meanwhile, she has lost weight close to 1 lb. And seemed very sleepy. Because of this development, we up the amount of formula we've been giving her. I continue to pump and try to breastfeed, but still no milk.
I am not satisfied with the reaction from my OB, so I decided to get a second opinion. I start taking Reglan and continue to pump and try to breastfeed. After two weeks, nothing. I am so depressed.
My OB orders bloodwork, they test my thyroid levels, cortisone levels, prolactin levels and order an MRI. All results come back normal; the prolactin levels are so low that it doesn't seem to register that I delivered a baby less than two months ago. By this point, I am so sad. It looks like I will not be able to have that special breastfeeding bond with my second daughter.
Meanwhile, she's had an allergic reaction to the organic formula she's been on and is starting to excrete blood in her diaper. We switch her to a hypoallergenic formula, and this extinguishes the problem. Meanwhile, I feel awful. I want to give her the best food possible, but I can't.
Will I have a special bond with my second as I did with my first? At five months later, I am still struggling with this question. I wanted to share my story with other women in hopes that it may help someone out there. My body refused to produce breast milk. I still don't know why, but it did. I am again picking up the pieces as I move forward in life. I find myself judging myself way harsher than I probably should.
The wishing to breastfeed does not go away, and I find myself jealous of new moms who can do this. I'm hoping my self worth issues and depression about this will get better in time because I would hate to miss out on life with my second daughter.