With a nursing strike, a mother might feel rejected, guilty and very distressed.
This can happen during any time in
any breastfeeding relationship. The baby might suck for a few minutes and
then push away crying and refusing to continue breastfeeding. Your baby might not
want to suck at all, even though he/she seems hungry.
Try Dr. Harvey's Cuddle cure to calm your baby.
Some babies are just very fussy during breastfeeding, stopping
a few times, but continuing this way until satisfied. Some babies may be distracted, or restless and might even be fussy after feedings too.
Take a deep breath and remember that this time will be worth it in a
few months from now. (Hopefully sooner than that)
Relaxing will help your milk flow more efficiently. If you are feeling
overwhelmed, it would be best to stop trying for now and then try again
later, when you are feeling calmer. Get some help with your baby, so that you can take a break.
Always make sure that your baby drinks enough, even if you need to feed him/her donor breast milk or formula. If you do need to supplement, it's best to use a supplementary nursing aid.
A baby who refuses to eat at all "total nursing strike" should be
taken to the doctor, so that he/she can be tested for several things, including ear and throat infections or tongue tie.
How do I Know if Baby is Getting in Enough Milk During a Nursing Strike?
1. Your baby should breastfeed at least six times per 24 hours.
Co-sleeping can also help your baby relax while breastfeeding.
before nursing, to relieve a harsh milk flow. This can also be helpful to those mothers with slow let-down reflex problems, as the pumping can get the milk flowing before the baby nurses.
"My 14-month-old was a ravenous nurser before to the point of waking several times throughout the night to nurse both sides in a sitting.
Last week he started biting down and tearing at my nipples, I reacted as I always have with a firm, gentle mouth or no thank you and removed my breast before trying again if he gave the nursing cue.
At first, I thought he was just upset at teething pain, so I went on with my day and dropped him off with a little extra breast milk for the morning.
That afternoon and evening he proceeded to do it every single time I tried to nurse him when he gave me his nursing cues.
At this point I thought, wow that's odd he must be just off today. He refused all night and the next morning to the point of screaming slapping pinching and biting even just holding him not trying to nurse but all while he was giving me the nursing cues.
I was (is) miserable and at a loss. My boyfriend's take was that our son was ready to be done breastfeeding, but yet would only calm down when he got like this if given a bottle with breast milk, he's allergic to dairy and soy isn't healthy, so we've also tried goats milk, but he refuses it.
He will only take breast milk from a bottle now although I continue to try to nurse. My milk supply is already dropping despite pumping, a lot (ugh!). I'm at a loss! Help, please."
"Hi, have you tried giving him something cold to chew on just before nursing?
I use to make breast milk lollies and give those to my daughter before she nursed, the cold will numb the gums and breast milk contains anti-pain ingredients, so that helps too.
For now, you could try keeping your supply up with herbs. I make my tea with fenugreek, fennel, anise, and blessed thistle. If you would like the recipe, I could send it to you. Other than that, oatmeal helps as well as seaweed and coconut water.
I would hang in there; it could be a few things, maybe it will pass? It doesn't sound like self-weaning, looks more like teething pain or maybe earache?
I think it would be best to get to a lactation consultant before your milk supply drops even more - so that they can assess the situation and advise accordingly."
My Baby Refuses to Drink at Noon
by Claire (China)
"My baby refuses to drink at noon, from 11 am to 5 pm, if I force him to drink, he cries out loud, is it okay if I don't feed him at noon?
Hope this helps! Let me know how things go, would love to hear from you again."
Successfully Ended a Nursing Strike
"My nine-month-old bit me one day, and I yelped and said "No!". He started crying - really crying. He did not nurse for five days after that.
He wanted me near him and wanted me to hold him - but refused to nurse. He would cry, turn away, and push away from the breast. I was pumping during this time, but he preferred water or formula out of a sippy - not my milk. I was so sad and cried every day. I wasn't ready for him to be weaned - he is my last baby (3rd). I had to stop nursing my 1st at nine mos, and my 2nd didn't make it past four months - so this was new territory for me.
I read suggestions here and elsewhere and decided to take it slow. A lot of skin-to-skin and I offered the breast but didn't push it. I noticed that every day he got more relaxed and yesterday started to drool! So today he sat in my lap - patted the breast and leaned in to nurse. We BOTH were really happy after that, and he has nursed all day. SO - take it slow, and they will come back to you!"
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